Your marriage is over, but all you can think about is how to get your wife back. You thought your marriage was great. Sure, it had its fair share of problems, but what marriage doesn’t, right? When she wonders if his wife will ever be able to love him again, the answer is yes. Here are some tips to help you win back her heart.
The two loved each other enough to marry. The kind of love that is needed for a person to want to marry runs deep. It doesn’t just go away. Even if she doesn’t want to admit it, she still loves you. It may not be as strong a love as she once was, but there still IS love for you in her heart.
When you see your ex-wife, it’s perfectly fine to say hello and stop and chat. Don’t try to talk too much or start a meaningful conversation with her at this point. The shorter the conversation, the better. If there are still hurt feelings or anger, they will come up again when you are together for a long time. By keeping things short and sweet, she won’t have time to think about the bad stuff, and you’ll be in the front of her mind, instead of buried deep in the back.
Why did you two split up? Many things cause marriages to end. It could have been your fault, or hers, or both of them. Find out what went wrong. What was the final straw for her and what led to it? Are these problems avoidable?
Are you absolutely sure that you two were made for each other? If so, then you have to give things time. They have both been through a traumatic experience and it will take some time for them to heal. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t see or talk to her. It just means that you have to keep things simple right now. Keep the tension at bay.
When you can talk to her more often, it’s time to take another step. Ask her if she would like to join you for coffee or lunch. Stay in a public place, where you both feel comfortable. Don’t mention bad things. You are going to build a future relationship with her: keep the past in the past. Don’t try to see her every day; there will be plenty of time for that in the future.
Things will happen naturally and both of you will be relaxed with each other. Enjoy her every minute you spend with her.