You feel horrible. Maybe you know you were wrong. Did he or she completely misunderstand something you said or did? Do you feel bad inside because you know that what they are thinking is not true? Is your heart broken? Can your heart be mended? Is there anything you can say or do to make your ex accept you back? What can you do to make the person you love forgive you?
Breaking up is never fun. But sometimes a breakup can completely crush you. You feel a great whole in your chest that will not go away. It is difficult, if not virtually impossible, to imagine your life without this person and loving you. Everything reminds you of them. You can’t watch certain movies or listen to certain songs because it’s too painful.
Depending on where you were in your relationship, maybe you were even married, there may be children involved. That makes the situation much more complicated. I didn’t have children so I can only imagine that, but I know well the utter desperation of losing someone. It is especially difficult to deal with if it is a misunderstanding.
Maybe he was accused of something he didn’t do, but he has no way of proving he’s telling the truth. I have been in this situation and it is particularly distressing. Unfortunately, I was a heavy drinker at the time and used alcohol as a way to escape or numb the pain. Unfortunately, this ended up not only making things worse between me and the woman I loved, but also destroying every other part of my life.
Now I can look back with an objective eye and see all the things I did wrong, as well as some of the things I did right. Now I can see what I should have done step by step. If he had done those things instead of completely screwing up the situation and making it worse, he would almost certainly still be with that person. But now there is no way to go back. It’s too late.
There are proven ways that in many cases are very quick ways to get your ex back, get your girlfriend back, get your boyfriend back, get your wife back, or get your husband back, whatever the case may be, as long as not too much time has passed . happened and not much damage has been done yet.
A tremendous obstacle that many can never overcome is the need to be honest with themselves and make changes. Obviously, without changes everything remains the same, right? Do you like the way things are now? Well then you better establish within yourself that you are going to make some changes in your life and who you are as a person.
But what must change and how must you find the strength to do it? Stay tuned for future articles on this topic.