You want to study at home, but your spouse is against it. What do you do about it? Do you keep nagging and questioning until they change their mind? Do you leave articles about homeschooling lying around the house?
Here are some suggestions to help you in your dilemma:
1. If you have any religious beliefs, your first option should be to pray for God to resolve the situation. If God can change the hearts of kings, he certainly can change the hearts of your spouse if you are destined to study at home.
2. Read as much as you can about homeschooling. Talk to homeschooling parents and attend a homeschooling convention if you can. You’ll gain a wealth of knowledge and insight into what homeschooling entails and what kinds of resources you’d need.
2. Write a list of pros and cons with your spouse. Many people look at the negative aspects of a situation without even considering the benefits. Sometimes, if someone sees the pros and cons written down on paper, they get a clearer idea of what they’re up against.
3. Keep in mind that your child’s needs should be the most important goal that you and your spouse focus on. They both love this boy and know him best. Make a list of your child’s needs. Then compare that to what each education option has available to meet these needs.
4. Establish a trial period for homeschooling. Take half a school year or a full year to commit to homeschooling, and then assess at the end of that period. This will give both of you a chance to try homeschooling without making it a permanent decision.
Realize that your child was given 2 parents for a reason. You provide the balance your child needs to be successful in life. Your spouse may be right in his opinion. Life is a journey and this is one aspect of the journey where you have to make some very important decisions. Keeping your child and her needs at the forefront of your decision-making will help you make the best decision for his education.