If you have recently wondered how I can get my husband to stay with me, you are probably feeling lonely and confused. When a marriage begins to fall apart, it’s easy to conclude that you’ll have to deal with separation and eventual divorce. It doesn’t have to be that way at all. If her husband has dropped hints or if he has told her outright that he is considering leaving her, don’t panic. There are steps he needs to take right now to make sure the two of you have another chance at happiness.
An incorrect conclusion many married women jump to when they feel their husband has one foot out the door is that the relationship is hopeless. It is not. Her desire to leave may become the saving grace she has been seeking to rebuild the connection they once shared. Very often, once a man makes the decision to begin a real physical separation and moves out of the family home, he quickly realizes what a mistake he has made. When your husband lives with you and the two of you face daily conflicts, it’s easy for him to focus only on the negative aspects of the relationship. As soon as he has moved away from that and experiences life without you, he can make you reconsider if he made the right decision. That’s why it’s so important not to fight right away if your husband wants to leave.
Another important point to remember if you want your husband to stay with you is to consider how you have been treating him. It’s easy to become blind to the fact that his own behavior may be contributing to his negative feelings toward you. If you have been neglecting him or if you have turned to him with your anger about other matters in your life, you must change that starting today. If your husband doesn’t feel appreciated or valued by you or if he feels unappreciated, that will result in an emotional gap between the two of you. The only way to bridge this gap effectively is to start treating him the way you used to when you were first married. Make sure he knows how much he brings to your life in a positive way. Thank him each day and let him know that you are glad and grateful that he is your husband.