Men have a way of letting a woman know their feelings through their body language and behavior. If your guy has been acting like he’s not interested in you in the slightest, he might really be! Take a look at these tips. They will help you better understand this cold behavior of the boys!
They don’t want to seem too much in love
Guys may feel that if they are too open about their feelings towards a woman, they come across as guys who can’t control their feelings and look silly. They have an image to protect and they will do nothing to spoil it!
He believes that wearing his heart on his sleeve would make him look weak.
The fear of appearing weak and vulnerable is very real to most alpha males, and if your guy has a reputation to uphold, he’ll hate letting his feelings show openly. He’ll go to great lengths to pretend otherwise just so he doesn’t seem too open and easily “readable.”
They want the girls to chase them.
While many guys love a good chase, there are others who still think it’s great to have a girl do the chasing. It makes you feel sexy, attractive and “in demand”. This is why he pretends to be cold and distant so that she thinks he is even more attractive and unapproachable and therefore worth pursuing.
They hate to admit they have feelings.
Men have this stupid but very real idea that they’re not supposed to cry, be musky and romantic in front of others and basically admit they have feelings and emotions. Only women are “allowed” to openly cry and bare their souls to everyone. Therefore, there are many who will act like they don’t care when they really do!
They think it will make her chase him harder.
Women aren’t the only people who believe in reverse psychology! Just as a woman can pretend not to care so he will pursue her even more, men can also pretend not to care just to see her pursue him as if he is the only eligible male around.
They want to be sure of their feelings first.
Many men are afraid to show and admit their feelings too soon. If he is not sure about your feelings for him, and is afraid of making a fool of himself by professing his love for him, he will wait until he is really sure that you love him before committing and showing the world that he loves you.
They want to portray a strong and macho image.
What is it about men that makes them want to pretend they don’t care at all? Perhaps it is an instinct to appear strong, independent and macho! They feel that if they seem like the type of guy who is not that easy to hook up, it will make them more irresistible to women.